I am straying away from devotions today and blogging about something that I have a real passion about. I have a passion for working mothers. I know how hard it is. I have stayed at home and am now working full-time outside the home with a two year old and a Kindergartner. I can honestly say that working away from the house is the HARDEST job in the world. It leaves me past the point of exhaustion every weekend. So working mothers who want to raise Godly, responsible children are my passion.
Are you among the
64.4% of working mothers out there? As stated above, I am and honestly, I hate it. It's not that I don't want to work. I do, but in a different way. I want to work at home. I want to be a stay-at-home mom so bad. I dream about it daily. I pin homeschooling ideas on
my Pinterest boards in hopes of one day being able to homeschool my children.
Unfortunately as much as I want to stay at home, it is not in the cards for me at this time. I pray if it is God's will for me to stay at home, He will make a way in His time. I know if it is meant, He will.
So how can I maximize the short two days I get with my family? Let's look at some things we can do.
1. Do not use Saturday to clean all day- Okay, so I am guilty of this one. It seems like I clean all day Saturday and even Sunday afternoon. I want to stop that. I talked to my husband today and we decided that we are going to make Thursday evenings our cleaning time. We are going to take an hour and all four of us work together. I also asked if we could clean the kitchen as a family every night because it is just too much for me to do by myself with also doing lunches, baths and laying clothes out for the next day. I am hoping these two changes will make a big difference in the way I spend my Saturdays now.
2. Plan one family activity every weekend- My husband works the weekend, but I hope to plan one thing for me to do with the kids every weekend. Things that are on my list are Children's Museum,
Indoor Snowball Fight,
teach my daughter to sew, play board games, play
messy Twister (yes, I really want to do this!), play tag, take them to the park, or just sit on the couch all day and watch their favorite cartoons! I also have to not forget to plan family nights throughout the week for us to spend time with my husband!
3. Take time and read a full chapter from the Bible- If I get devotions in during the week, it is usually what I post here. Just a short verse or two. While I believe in short and sweet for the busy mom during the week, I don't want to forget the importance of slowing down on the weekends and reading my children full chapters from the Bible.
4. Hug your child as often as you can- I really miss my kids while working and I try to hug them on the weekends as much as I can. They eat it up, too! They love all the attention.
5. Take them to church on Sunday- Please, take your children to church. My parents made sure me and my brother were in church every Sunday, when possible. I look back and see that the influence of attending church has shaped my very being into who I am today. That consistent attendance has helped me to be faithful even when my husband has decided not to attend or I am feeling tired. It is extremely hard, sometimes. But I realize that I can impact my children's future by me being faithful to church. Now I am not saying you have to participate in every church activity. Don't feel pressured to do all the Bible studies, choirs and classes your church offers. Do what is comfortable for your family and leaves you with most of your time being spent with them.
I could go on and on with this post, but I will stop right here. This is just a short list at what I do and what I am going to work on doing to make my weekends intentional. Intentional about spending time with my children and teaching them about God!
I want to note that I
know how tired you are! The bone tiredness that comes along with taking care of your family, home and working full-time. I have to push myself to get out of bed Saturday. But with God's help, we can be the intentional mother on the weekends that we want to be! I find myself repeating Philippians 4:13 under my breath several times throughout the weekend. I am so weary, but at the end of the day, when I have done God's will, I feel a peace and satisfaction like I don't feel throughout the week.
What are some ways you make your weekends intentional?